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Hello and Adab!! 

  Welcome to ‘Ask yourself’ series.

Saadar Namasteeeeee sabko!!

And a big Hiiiiiiiieeeeee.

Ever thought of sitting back for a while and observe things around you. In the last post, we have talked about self-observations and analysis. Now it is rainy season, ever sat near the window and look outside for some time blankly without any thoughts? Enjoying the sounds of droplets, watching out birds and other people on the roads?

I know you are not free as I am. I know everyone is engaged in their work system of ‘WFH’- work from home. But I am much more engaged in stuff of ‘work for home’ things since beginning of the month July. And there is a new taboo and myth building up space of – “who are not using this quarantine time in not developing any skills, then it wasn’t the time issue, the fault lies in ‘you’.” Yes, time is never the factor to learn something. You can learn everything all the time. Learning has no age bar, but the clubs & bar do. The willingness to learn lies in you, and that what is needed and important to learn anything be it skills or few personal traits of yourself. Arey Ha pata hai, Mein aur tum psycho therapist nahi hai. But do we need to go to a therapist to know our own self? Just a simple questions. Comment your views.

Come on guys, if you give a read, do comment, how will I know by what extent my views or experience or whatsoever is even good or bad? Mein Sadhu thode hu, haaaa isko acha laga hoga, haaaa isne padha he nahi hai. Come on be honest. I can read the eyes of person sitting next to me for some extent but not your minds from sitting back in my place. Aisa koi technology aya nahi hai, okay. 5G ane wala hai, mind reading app nahi hai mere pass. Okay. Jab itna bada blog padh sakthe ho, kuch toh ayega hoga dimag mei, vahi comment kar do. Be spontaneous and of course I am asking you to be yourself.

And a simple message for the hater/s, I don’t give a damn what you think and what gives you immense happiness to poke into others business always despite wasting your time in doing this.Wanted to convey my message that learn to keep it simple so called human, Live and let others live. That’s it. Thank you for your precious time to hit dislike button without reading the whole blog and public out there, who take out time to read and reply me on various social apps, I love you guys, and I am happy that you give a read and reply even after a week. That’s make me smile and that’s a great thing you are doing. I hope, even you smile when I write – keep smiling, because a smile even in the time of tears is as precious as hope that you are binding and building up in your good mind every day for the next day.

 Oookaaaayyy. Back to the content. I get a break of 2 hours .i.e. by 4 pm every day. That is because, by that time I finish my lunch (Yes, I know that’s too late but now it is the routine) and I am free as hell for the day for just 120 minutes. Are you getting the calculations right? In this precious time of ‘120 minutes’, I just look outside the window for first 60 minutes and the later I am lost in pool of thousands of thoughts.

There is famous dialogue of Mr. Amitabh Bachchan from the movie of HUM – ‘Duniya mei do tarah ke keede hothe hai…’ I don’t kitne logo ne movie dekha hai but Chumma Chumma de de yeh suna zaroor hoga. Par dekho yeh scene, it has a message by both the characters involved. Here is the link to it:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=puQGHvQzIDM

 

Baath kuch aise hai ke. Agar ek insan/cheez tumhare liye bekar hai toh kiske ke liye kaam ka hai. I have read on some facebook feed that Americans provide free books to the students and the students are required to return it back after their use because the same set of books are circulated to the next batch to reduce the use of papers and cutting down of trees. But here India (I don’t know about other countries), we literally sell off books into the scrap. Tons of books, novels and what not are sold off into scraps. And the poor or the needy who are willing to learn don’t get enough sources to learn.

And the one who wants to grow are pulled back to the reality of being poor. We have, the society has categorised us in to soooo many categories.

But I believe, Duniya mein sirf ek he keede hai, vo hai Insan. There is nothing good or bad. Nobody is bad, in some way or other those negative vibes are also helping us to learn and survive and win that bad.

Did you see that coming?

Ever thought, that person is isn’t that bad?

They have a good thought for others.

May a particular bad fight with you.

I have seen that coming. I have observed that people where good back in some time, but some behaviour and attitude had made a bad relation with me. Give a thought. That would be someone in your life too. Everyone is a good hearted person but are also too clever or too dumb to hurt the next person intentionally or unintentionally.

Look around you. Observe people instead of bitching about them. If you have a history then even the next person also has a history. Every individual is a mystery. It takes a long life time to learn the next the step of the person sitting or living with you. To understand the behaviour and mind, are two different aspects. Ek ke saath rehthe rehthe, unke behaviour ke habit ho jatha hai, but what when an individual is fast learner and believes in being spontaneous every time. In such condition, it’s hard to calculate the next step of the person.

There is lot more to see around. The environment you live in and a lot more to learn about the persons you are living with.

        A person has a different world at work and a different world at home and a very different world with his friends and gang. The behaviour of the person keeps on changing as per the world he/she is in. That’s how it works, right?

        There is lot more to explore about yourself, but even the person who loves and care about you, needs your attention and time.

        I am keeping the post short and will continue in the next post.

        So Public by that time, keep smiling, stay healthy and safe.

Analyse your behaviour towards the one who cares about you. Don't give up so early. Every person is different and unique. Love the way they are.

Remember, Live and let others live. Don’t irritate too much to the person who is happy without you. Learn to give space. When someone is out of your life, don’t disturb them. Humans don’t force but demons do. Now decide what you are for everyone but not of just one person but for your own self. Read again and Think again.

 

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