Do you have that one person?

Hello and Adab!!

Namasteeeeee jiiii!!

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Happppy friendship Day Public

I hope everyone is doing well today. Ek toh Sunday hai aur aaj Friendship day bhe hai. Do din pehle he pehle baar International Friendship manaya hoga. Any ways, a very happppppy friendship day againnnn. Keep smiling always.

‘A friend in need is a friend indeed.’

Life mei sab theek tab hotha hai, jab har khushi aur har gham share karne wala koi hotha hai. Any relationship of our lives, start from initial step .i.e. is finding a friend. Every relation, just count any, we have to start it with friendship and even to end it at good note, friendship is the best one. One has to be your friend to understand you further. Isn’t it?

I am little weird, I have the best troop and people around who have been in every thick and thin phases of my life. Even I talk to many things around me like to my soft toys, at times to my own self, at times to the moon (constant love #chandamama), at times to my favourite God & Goddess (Bappa and unki pappa and baki sab bhe, equally pyaar karthe hu sabse). It’s not important, everyone has to be part of your happiness, but yet people who stay in difficulties and even in the weirdest phase of your routine, hold a special place. They may even be your childhood friend or even a stranger at times, even your office buddy or even your midnight friend. It is not necessary that ‘one person’ has to be one, they can be different too. Kabhe kabhe sab saath hokar, saath nahi hothe hai, par phir bhe saath hothe hai.

Har waqt tumhare liye nahi ho saktha hai, sab ke life ke priorities hothe hai, career, family, partners and kya kuch nahi. Par jab bhe ek dost ke zarut hothe hai, koi nah koi hamesh rehtha hai. Sirf tumhe ek haath aage milna hai. As I say, har kisse ko telepathy nahi athe hai, par kuch logo ko athe hai, your friend has that power to understand your mind set by the behaviours of yours, from your body languages and other factors. They can crack that you are not doing well, of course, dimag mei kuch khichdi ban rahe hai, kuch toh pareshan kar raha hai, Samjh jata hai unko. Jaise apne mumma hai, bina bataye dimag aur maan ke baath padh lete hai, same kuch vaise he hai, yeh wale quality, apne pyaare aur kaminey dosto mei bhe hai. Isliye kabhe kabhe apne bache ke tarah ke sambhal lete hai hume.

The word ‘best’ is not for friends, there is no such word which can define the true meaning and affection of our friends. ‘Best’ is like categorizing among the option given, par friends are not option given. Friends are one who we choose and even they choose us. Equal respond, do you get it? Isn’t it basic. Isliye ‘best friend’ aisa kuch nahi hai, aisa mein manate hu. Kuch logo tag karna pasand hai toh theek hai, tumhe lagtha hai best friend hai, toh mere liye vo insan mere ‘bestest’ hai. Chalo tumhare liye thoda badal jaathe hu, haa hai mere ‘bestest friend’ and I am much blessed to have one and even other friends too who hold special place. Dil ke awaz sun lete hai bina kahe, aur kya chaiye. Mein isse mein bahut khush hoon. To be very frank, I have reserved myself to my people around me now, aur koi naya insan nahi chaiye, filhal koi ayega bhe toh mere dosto ke level pe toh nahi, they will be at the stage of acquaintance only. Galat hai, par muje ab yeh galti he theek lag raha hai. Because for me now, Quality matters than the Quantity. What say public?

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Few people have their parents or siblings as their ‘bestest friends’. They are lucky enough to share everything way too fast. Life sorted lagtha hai. But even others are more lucky, because, parents and siblings as good friends are like default settings, and kuch hamare dost are like our own customised settings, thoda hum unko change karthe hai, aur kabhe vo hume change karthe hai.

At times, a person of opposite traits can be your best person of life, like sab opposite hai, life adventurous and thrilling hothe hai. There a different level of fun and contentment in life, when you have a different personalities of people in your life to make it more interesting every moment you spend with them.

Those nonstop talks, fun and of course alag duniya ka meaning lekar athe hai yeh log, life mein. Pehle samjh ne mein time laghta hai, par phir adat ho jaathe hai. Waqt ke saath sab kuch bandh jaatha hai. You really need not to talk on daily basis to to be attached, at times, a sudden call helps, at times a chat on different social apps also works, at times eating around works wonder, at times long walks are beautiful, at times talking shit about office politics for too long hours relaxes the mind from core and many more.