Do you want to be that one?

 

Hello and Adab!! 

 

Namasteeeeee jiiii!!

Hellloooooooo Public.

What inspires you? Parents, your siblings, any individual, any celebrity or any pet?

I try to learn from each and every one. This is what I have been writing in all my posts till now. Every little thing around us matter in a good away and which has a smaller contribution towards the greater impact of the changes in our life, in our lifestyle and of course in our way of thinking. I am a crazy big fan of SRK and MB [Tollywood Actor – Mahesh Babu (Screen Name)]. Vaise toh aise kaafi logo se I am inspired. To count on, my parents are the best examples for the concept of marriage and ‘not to get married’ scenario, friends and other extended family and other extended family who are in risk each and every moment for the well-being of every individual of our country #our Army, Navy and Air force (we all owe our peaceful life to them) and few individual celebs like Akshay Kumar for healthy lifestyle and values, south actor - #Nani for his patience towards success. My list of favourite things, songs and ‘to-do things’ or  bucket-list keeps on changing as I go on reading about stuffs and individuals.

‘Happpppy Birthday #MB. Much love always’

The very common thing between in SRK and MB is their pure smile and dedication to convince their point of subject and patience level. The ‘wait’ and ‘passion’ they had for years to make good in their work life and to make their partners by their side by winning all odds is true and commendable. I don’t expect you or anybody to see the same, you may find it stupid, and that’s okay.

 I don’t see what you wear or how much many does your pocket has? I only concentrate on the way you smile. I am enough matured to identify that fake smile, I need your help smile and many more. But what gives me ‘my part of sukoon’ is your real and pure smile. That’s only reason I keep on writing –‘keep smiling’ because in all your fake and irrelevant smiles, you will eventually end up smiling by all your heart. Someday that change will surely come. A happy smile after loads of crying is worth after breaking down the pain and letting out the anger and regret thoughts. Everything which happens, has its own worth.

I have a habit of posting a picture of the star on their birthdays, even I know (of course) they are not going to see it. But conveying love is what I believe. When you love someone or miss someone, it is important to show up. (Remember not everyone knows ‘the art of telepathy’. Right Public.) But this time, I didn’t do that today, because I learnt a lesson today, my love for my inspiration is unconditionally. I believe and I love people around me in unconditionally way. Expecting love and care from them shouldn’t be part of it. But still I am a human being, come on, itna toh expect kar sakthe hoon. I have learnt that, I love ‘my few people’ in unconditionally way, but fortunately or unfortunately those ‘few’ are unaware of it. That’s what life is. Little good and little rude to the one who expects little care and love back from their ‘few ones’.

Do you want to that one person?

Remember once we were discussing about that every individual is good by heart but some traits of that person makes us believe that he/she is a bad or little weird person. Yes, that absolutely correct. There is always gonna a person, who will nag you down and will try to make you the ‘villain’ in the eyes of other. I want to ask you all –

Do you really want to be that ‘one person’?

Or are you already that person???

There are few persons in our life, who shall never be happy of what and how much good you do or how much good you think for their well-being. They will keep on nagging or will ignore your goodness and even influence bad about you to others. They work with a good fake smile and ‘I don’t know nothing’ dialogue. They shall act or pretend that they are the most innocent creature on the earth, the line of matureness is far away from their doors. And to the extent of stupidity or unconditionally love, some even have immense believe in such creatures and make fool out of themselves to keep on encouraging such individuals.

‘Isse kaha kuch pata hai?’

‘Duniya ke samjh nahi hai.’

‘Arey, tum mature ho, usse yeh sab kaha pata hai?’

‘He/she is not mature as you are, you should understand and behave like good one?’

‘Don’t dwell too much, ignore their mistakes, they are still immature?’

To my knowledge today’s generation kids are more mature than their age. How can an adult be immature?

 Nobody is immature. Everyone is unique and they know their limits and are well versed with the meaning of being matured.

So never consider that any other person is innocent. How can you judge so easily? Yes. A person can be innocent by heart but not by their brains. Life is soo good that it had taught a lot of lessons to everyone out there. No one is dumb to be too innocent in such Kalyug time, we can’t say every other person that – ‘he/ she is mad’ (‘Arey, yeh toh pagal hai.’ Oh Bhai, aise nahi hai..bikhul nahi hai. Remember Jo baki logo ko pagal bhulathe hai, vahi sabse bade pagal hothe hai.) The other person standing next to you is always has some extra information than you have and vice versa. (Even you have an extra information than the other person has - on some selective and different topic. Its’ all subjective and relative dude.) Nobody is less or more. Everybody is mature enough to understand every damn thing. (Par yeh baath koi parents samjhega he nahi 😅 )

Koi nahi zindagi hai he aise, kabhe apne samjh mei athe hai aur kabhe apne samjh ke paar ho jaathe hai!

Par ek baath hai, Zindagi kaise bhe ho, hume haar na nahi hai, vo T20(or whatever) khelthe rehege aur hame bhe runs bante rehna hai.

‘Zindagi kaise hai paheli, haai,kabhi toh hasaaye, kabhi yeh rulaaye’……..

(Vaise Rajesh khanna ji pe picturised saare gaane  bahut ache hai, very meaningful, word by word are worth listening.)

Ek bar try kar lo, ‘Rajesh Khanna songs’ playlist on YouTube. And ha, jo romantic gaane sunte hai, iska matlab nahi ke, pyaar mei doobe hai, kuch log gaane se bhe pyaar karthe hai and even vice versa with sad songs too.

(‘Jhoka hawa ka aaj bhe’ is still my favourite, iska matlab yeh nahi hai mere 50 breakups hue hai, thang se ek affair bhe nahi hua hai yaar. Okay. Hahahaah 😂😂😂. (Yaar tum log kitne jaldi judge karthe ho yaar, uffff !!)

Come on public, check on yourself, which person are you? The ‘yeda bane ke peda khaneka’ types or ‘the mature’ one. I seriously want to the ‘immature one’, bahut fayida hai, but unfortunately I am much more mature than my age, aise mere pure family manate hai. I am old soul, I purely admit that with no regrets. I have only regretted with my ‘forgive and forget’ policy. Jitna jaldi bhura lagtha hai, uthna jaldi maaf kar dete hoon. Nakhre karna nahi atha, shyd vahi galth cheez hai muje mein. At times, you should throw tantrums. People are more involved and are good to the people who have loads of tantrums.

But over the time, I have lost my patience level a lot. But kaisa bhe situation ho, I need 5 minutes of self-time to overcome any shit. Can you even imagine, I have ask my friend to give me 5 min to meditate, to get back my sense, when I was high on only 2 shots of Rum? Yes. That’s weird, and that’s the way I am. Character he aisa hai.

(Phir judge mat karna, it was just like Rum health ke liye acha hotha hai, sirf try karna tha. Bas and do shot mei koi high nahi hotha I know but my body is not at all used to even a single drop of any sort of alcohol. And yes I get high too early to any given drink and I talk shit but honest things and yes, even deep sleep makes me talk honest things like hell, pura frustration and debate types baateein karthe hoon.)

What makes you talk honestly??

By the end, I want to say at a very personal level, don’t be the matured one, but be silly.

Make your plans in private, work hard, be happy in private, Social life on this shitty apps is just not worth and let your success make you more good and grounded person.

Keep learning from each and every one. Even the immature person taught me to ignore them and love myself more.

See there is always your look out to learn from others, be it your friend or be it your enemy.

Rather, don’t consider anyone as your enemy. Thinking all the time to defeat them is a waste of energy and time, instead concentrate on improving yourself and be better and new version of you every next time.

Read again and Think again.

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Keep smiling and spread love always. 💓💓

Much Love Public.😀😀💓💓💓

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(I wrote it last year for SRK’s birthday- 02.11.2019,Raasthe pe chalthe chalthe likha tha, mushkhil se post hua tha din khatm hone se pehle but to be honest (tbh – I learned this shortcut last week) I wrote this for the people who I love unconditionally and they are unaware of it.)  

Oh Yes. I am very bad in hindi, please galth spelling iss bhar ignore kar lo (but batao muje, kya galth likha hai, I want to learn and improve), agle baar I will work hard more–

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