Independence? Really?

Hello and Adab!! 

 

Sabko Namaste!!

Hiee Public.

Today is 16^th August 2020. Yesterday we all celebrated our Independence Day on 15^th August 2020 and today I am going to talk about some issues related to finding some independence.

 The number of year from the independence is a big number. Right? Do you really feel the independence?    

What we achieve on this day in that year (15^th August 1947)?

Ans: We got independence from the rule of British.

And on every 15^th August, we celebrate Independence Day to give our gratitude to all the great warriors who fought for us to live in free India and celebrate the freedom.

But do we are still free from the ‘Bad one.’

What about those who still want to rule?’

 Yes. There are still people around you public who wants to rule you.

Who are they?

Some of them are -

 -They want you to just listen their commands and do /act as per the way they want to you to work. In such scenes, we haven’t got the independence to be heard, to be understood and even to be ourselves.

-They will keep on degrading you in the eyes of others and will keep on building up their fake army to oppose you or even not to understand you.

-They will keep on commenting on your weakness all over the time again and again.

- They will keep on asking you to keep numb in every each situation. They will ask to be shut. They will ask to not to oppose.

-They will ask you not to talk. Because you never talk good as per their ‘minds’.

-They wouldn’t give you the chance to be understood. You are anyway and always wrong.

-They will keep on forcing things on you, besides, they know it well, that you don’t like doing it. Still you are expected to do so. Okay.

-They will ask you not to share your part of story to anyone. Because you talk non sense all the time. Your part of story is always shit.

-They will consider you arrogant and rude all the time.

-They will blame you for every possibility you give as suggestions. Such people can’t take negative consequences as a possibility. For such people, you are negative person with hell lot of attitude and understanding issues.

-They themselves will never accept their flaws, but will taunt you every time for your short comings, even if you accept the way you are and even happily proud to talk about it, but they will nag you down behind your back. Because bitching is what they do for entertainment.

- They will discriminate you each and every time by the way of what you wear, what you like, how you talk, how you walk, how you eat, how you sit, people you meet, the time you go, the time you come, with whom you go, and with whom come, and yes most importantly how you look. And at times, even how you sneeze even. Everything you do, at any given time it can be a point to making fun of.

‘Making fun of something only works for a single point of time, same jokes and so called ‘fun’ if is getting repeated then A Big Hellooo Public.. You are NOT making FUN of it, or it is neither actually for FUN. You are literally nagging down the other person’.

Here is the big difference in so called ‘fun’ and ‘pulling down/back’ an individual. The same makes sense in the situation of eve teasing issue. The difference is the eve teasing involves unknown person and the so called ‘fun’ involves the known person.

-They expect you not to react on anything. Because every reaction of yours is anyway wrong. They expect you to accept their stupidity and enjoy what they say. You can’t correct them. That’s a crime. You have offended ‘the Lord’.

-They want you to be always be available for them. They can’t take a no from you. You are not allowed to refuse. You are not allowed to use your logic. Because, you are much rude as you always oppose (even if it has sense, but you are not supposed to use your logic, because you are rude, vicious circle)

- They are the one, who still want to behave like illiterate person, being having a good knowledge of basic and civic ethics. You are not allowed to share your part of opinion to it, then your being rude again, and insulting the other person.

- They want to you to think about ‘what people think’ instead of ‘what you feel good?’ Because at the end, the people around are enough good than you. And we all are supposed to live our lives as per the people of society, not as per the betterment of our own life.

-They want hell lots of thing from you, but you can’t speak buddy. You just do the things the way they want it supposed to be.

 I argue everyone to identify such people and give our own-self independence.

Independence to our own-self? HOW?

Don’t worry at all. For once, talk and communicate your issues, then if same gets repeated - Ignoring them is only the best solution to it.

 You may think, aisa kaun ho saktha hai- jo aisa insan hai, jisse muje independence chaiye?

‘Duniya chote nahi hai. Aur jitne ache hai, utne he bekar bhe hai’

If there is somebody who doesn’t like the way you talk, don’t talk to them. Give them that ‘independence’. You live in ‘peace’ and let the other live in ‘peace’.

Kisko tumhare saath chalna pasand nahi hai, Tum aage chale jao. Give them the independence in such way and even to yourself too.

Somebody doesn’t like the way you sit, the way you walk or eat. Don’t meet such people. Free karo khud ko aise logo se. Ab aisa mat bolo.. kya ab ghar chod du?

Engage yourself in some good stuffs, so that yeh sab fark he nah pade. Ignore and keep your good things going. Kya pata in actual you start wearing some descent clothes or you may really start eating like a King or princess of some kingdom. You never know, change can be any time because change is the only constant thing. Jab kuch kaam ayega, automatically you will be the good one for them. See the fastest change comes in such way.

Everyone wants to win the race but alone. Why everyone wants to be boss, a good leader even has good scope and even gets much respect too.

Why every other person wants to dominate other, even ‘to understand’ and ‘to be heard and understood’ still works.

I don’t understand, when somebody is speaking or talking something, it may be due to two reasons – (1) he/she have spoken after much thinking or (2) must have spoken without thinking.

Why do people prefer only the second option?

When someone is talking or suggesting something, give a shot of thought, the other person must have spent some time to advice or suggest you. Don’t neglect and over react. For just few seconds, try to think as per their perceptive and then oppose if you don’t understand, ask for explanation if you don’t understand. It’s totally basic thing, no such rocket science is involved nor degrading your respect or good knowledge, be open to learning.

Respect each and every one. Even the younger one needs your respect. Because they learn from what they see and how you behave to them.

I want to ask everyone, if don’t like me walking along with you, just tell me about that. Tumko athe hoge telepathy, muje nahi athe hai. Speak up and communicate and let me know what you want. Then I shall step back or move ahead accordingly. Muje koi shauk nahi hai aapne aap ko kisse pe force karne ka.

I want be happy and I even want people around me to be happy.

If you don’t like the way the other person is talking, better you stop talking. I do this. Because – Gadhe ko kitna bhe batao, vo namak nahi roohi hai, vo toh phir bhe pani mei jaake girega he.

Give him (every donkey of your life) the independence to be independent.

 Let him suffer the pain of his foolish and loss. Because at the end, he is losing a Gem like Master. At times, the support of being there doesn’t work, a support of being apart works.  Read again and Think again.

    Public, don’t trap yourself in unnecessary relationship, wherein you are not happy. Somebody doesn’t like you, Stay away from them. You don’t like somebody, tell them and let you and other person live in good peace. But communicate. That’s every important.

The independence in you comes, when you decide not to be dependent too much on others. And be what you want.

And be what you want, despite all above ‘those’ people (we discussed above)bothering you all the time, identify them and just ignore them, drag yourself in the lane of ‘not in talking terms’ with them, keep a little distance and enjoy your own space and love.

Don't try to rule, instead try to care and love, you will surely win buddy. 

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